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Asking Styles

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Posted March 5, 2013 by Andrea

What Happens When You and Your Fundraising Colleagues Have Different Asking Styles?

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When people of opposite Asking Styles come to appreciate each other’s strengths, they can be the best, most effective teams. Read how Alison Kear and Carlette Mack combine their very different styles.

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Posted February 13, 2013 by Andrea

We Have a Winner and a New Way to Win a Book

And the winner of our Facebook book drawing is…

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Posted September 28, 2012 by Andrea

Confessions of a Go-Getter

Andrea reflects on her personal Asking Style.

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Posted June 19, 2012 by Andrea

What’s An Asking Style?

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What’s an Asking Style? You might well ask, because most people in fundraising worry more about the donor’s style than they do figuring how they can ask for a gift in the way that makes them comfortable and effective.

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Posted June 18, 2012 by Andrea

Confessions of a Shy Fundraiser by Pamela Grow

One of the most surprising aspects of Asking Matters is that Kindred Spirits, those people who are introvert and intuitive, can be wonderful at asking for gifts. Pam Grow tells her story of being a Kindred Spirit whose success is based in large part on being a good listener and caring for others.

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Posted May 16, 2012 by Andrea

Quiet, The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, a book by Susan Cain

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Susan Cain’s book, Quiet, provides a well-researched look at the underpinnings of the ideas captured in Asking Styles. She explains in lively detail the complex issues of introversion and extroversion and makes a strong and compelling case for the power of the quieter people among us.

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Posted November 29, 2011 by Brian

Two Points for the Shy and Introverted: Proof We Are Great Fundraisers

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Yes, I’m Shy and Introverted No one believes it when I say … Read More

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Posted November 29, 2011 by Brian

SMARTASKS to Complement Asking Styles

Demont Associates has developed a fascinating system for categorizing donors – SMARTASKS. … Read More

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Posted November 13, 2011 by Andrea

How Do Your Board Members Want to Be Asked? An Effective Exercise

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Download “How Do Your Board Members Like to Be Asked” Rationale: Most … Read More

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Posted August 4, 2011 by Andrea

The Arc of the Ask: Shaping the Fundraising Solicitation

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This recording describes the role of the solicitor as the guide for the asking conversation. This innovative approach encourages the solicitor to be a good listener.

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If your board members aren’t comfortable asking for gifts, they’re not likely to do it! A good plan to train your board to ask that provides opportunities of many sorts year round will go a long way to easing their discomfort and turning them into effective fundraiser.

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Want to be more comfortable asking for gifts? Want to understand your personal asking style and how to use it? Want to partner more effectively with your colleagues and board members? You'll find it all and much more in this engaging, practical book about Asking Styles by Cofounder Andrea…
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